The wheelchair warrior
By Jill Campbell Mackay
IF YOU phone Christo
Neophytou, don't be put off by the fact he sounds like a full blown drunk -
he is in fact as sober as the proverbial judge.
Chris's slurred speech is a
symptom of Friedreich`s Ataxia, a disease that attacks the central nervous
system, wasting away the nerves and muscles.
But despite being confined
to a wheelchair for the past 12 years, Chris never sank into a well of
despondency and self-pity.
Now aged 40, he has turned
his disability to good use, creating the first holiday complex specially
designed for those in wheelchairs and their carers.
In a sleepy Polis backwater,
the C and A apartments are not only testament to Chris's indomitable spirit,
they are a perfect example of what can be done to create a normal and
welcoming environment for those not blessed with full physical and mental
abilities.
But why did he and his
family go to the trouble and effort to set up such a complex? “I knew from
grim experience,” explained Chris, “how difficult it was for those in
wheelchairs to find a place they could go to for a holiday, a place where
they felt safe and where they had a sense of freedom away from their rather
confined day-to-day lives.
“I then used my own
experience and knowledge as a disabled person to create the perfect holiday
place: that's the key really, giving people pleasure, but within a safe and
friendly environment.”
By the poolside there is a
purpose built hoist that helps lower guests into the water, there are wide
walkways, and everywhere there are ramps to allow a constant traffic of
wheelchairs to and from the self catering apartments.
Of these, Chris is
especially proud, and as he leads us into the rather splendid 'wheel in'
shower stall, he demonstrates how a guest can then to take a shower without
needing a carer in attendance.
Chris's enthusiasm is in no
way diminished by his encroaching disease.
“Everything you see here has
been designed to make life that bit easier for those in a wheelchair: we
even have inter-connecting doors between each bedroom, which means that the
able-bodied carers are still close by but both have their privacy.
“Overall, the area is much
bigger than you would find in a normal holiday apartment, with extras such
as a roll-up space beneath the kitchen sink to allow a guest to prepare a
meal, and wash up the dishes. Everywhere there are support rails, with each
toilet designed to give maximum aid to those with limited arm strength, so
they can haul themselves out of the wheelchair with some sense of security,
knowing they are supported by well designed and sturdy body supports.”
Over a splendid lunch
prepared by his mother and sister, I asked Chris why it was you saw so few
people in wheelchairs around the streets in Cyprus. Was it because there was
a sense of shame about being disabled?
“Well, that is one factor,
but the key is the dreadful state of the pavements. It's difficult enough to
walk safely on some of the streets, so imagine trying to manoeuvre them in a
wheelchair; but here in Polis it's OK to wheel along on the road as there
are so few cars, plus we also have good pedestrians only areas here.”
Chris put down people's
sometimes distressing attitudes to lack of awareness rather than malice. “In
the main, people do not mean to be cruel or unfeeling, 99 per cent of the
time it's ignorance that makes the girl at the supermarket checkout look to
my wife when it comes to paying the bill, ignoring the fact that I have the
money ready in my hand.
“I admit to feeling angry
sometimes: just because I'm in a wheelchair and my muscles don't work, it
doesn't mean to say my brain is dead. But that's the way it goes and like
many others in the same situation we just have to grin and bear it and get
on with our lives as best we can.”
Chris's has recently taken
on another battle on behalf of the disabled; he is vigorously campaigning
for a special ramp to be constructed at the CTO camp site in Polis.
This would then allow
wheelchair users to cross the sand with relative ease, opening up to them
for the first time the pleasure of swimming in the sea.
The CTO are still to decide
on the issue, but having seen Chris Neophytou at work, I am confident that
come summer that special ramp will be firmly in place.
For more information on the
C and A Holiday apartments, call 00357 26321881
C & A Apartments, No.3
Megalou Alexandrou Street, P.O.Box 66258, Polis 8831, Cyprus
E-mail
chrisneo@cytanet.com.cy
Website:
www.evas-apartments.com
Those wishing to rent
equipment for the disabled can access Chris's specialist site on
www.paraquip.com.cy |